How To Negotiate With Insurance Adjusters (Like A Pro)

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Author: John Mattiacci | Owner Mattiacci Law
Published April 12, 2025

How To Negotiate With Insurance Adjuster

So you got into a car accident. Or maybe you slipped and fell somewhere you shouldn’t have. Now you’re dealing with an insurance adjuster who seems way too cheerful about offering you what feels like pocket change for your troubles.

Insurance adjusters are professionally trained to save their companies money. That’s literally their job.

But the good news is that you can absolutely hold your own and get what you deserve.

In this post, we’ll show you how to negotiate with insurance adjusters like a pro.

#1 Be Prepared Before The Call

Never, ever hop on a call with an insurance adjuster unprepared. That’s like showing up to a gunfight with a spoon. Before you pick up that phone, gather all your evidence:

  • Photos of damages or injuries
  • Medical bills and records
  • Repair estimates
  • Any witness statements
  • Documentation of missed work and lost wages

Know your policy inside and out. Understand what’s covered and what’s not. Jot down notes about the incident while it’s fresh in your mind. 

The more detailed, the better.

Also, decide on a minimum settlement amount beforehand. This is your walk-away number. Knowing this helps you avoid getting caught up in the moment and accepting less than you deserve.

Also Read: How Much Are Personal Injury Settlements?

#2 Don’t Take The First Offer

The first offer is almost always lowball. Insurance companies count on you being eager to resolve things quickly. They hope you’ll grab that first offer and run.

DON’T.

That initial offer is typically just the starting point for negotiations. The adjuster has room to move up—often significant room. We’ve seen first offers that were less than half of what the person eventually received. Stay cool when you hear that first number. 

So thank them politely, then explain why it doesn’t cover your damages or injuries.

Negotiating With Insurance Adjusters

Remember, this is a normal part of the process. The adjuster expects you to negotiate. You’re not being difficult by asking for more.

#3 Be Polite, But Firm

Yelling at the adjuster won’t help your case. These folks deal with angry people all day long. They’re immune to it. Plus, they control your money, and burning bridges isn’t strategic.

Stay calm and professional. Address the adjuster by name. Listen actively. But don’t mistake politeness for pushover status.

You can be kind while clearly stating something like:

  •  “That offer doesn’t work for me.” 
  • “I appreciate your time, but I don’t think this offer reflects the full scope of my injuries.”

Practice saying these phrases before your call. It’s powerful in its simplicity.

Also Read: Does Renters Insurance Cover Personal Injury?

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#4 Highlight The Strongest Points

Don’t try to list every little detail. Focus on your strongest arguments. 

Did you need surgery? Will you need ongoing physical therapy? Has your car’s value plummeted because of the accident history? Is there clear liability from the other party?

Put these points front and center. Don’t dilute your case with minor complaints. 

If you have a broken leg and some scratches, talk about the broken leg.

Your job is to help the adjuster see the full picture of how this incident impacted your life. Most adjusters are reasonable people when presented with compelling evidence.

#5 Counter With Reasoned Offers

When you reject their offer, always counter with your own number. And always explain why your number makes sense.

“Based on my medical bills of $7,000, expected future treatment of $3,000, and lost wages of $2,000, plus consideration for pain and suffering, I believe $18,000 is a fair settlement.”

This reasoned approach is far more effective than simply saying “I want more.” It shows you’ve done your homework and aren’t just grabbing at numbers.

The adjuster might come back with objections. Listen carefully and address each one. 

This back-and-forth might happen several times. Stay patient through the process.

Counter With Reasoned Offers

#6 Get Everything In Writing

Seriously, don’t skip this. Always keep a paper trail. 

If you talk to the adjuster on the phone, follow up with an email summarizing what was said. Dates, amounts, agreements – all of it.

Also Read: Is Mediation Legally Binding In Personal Injury Cases?

Once you do agree on a final number, make sure it’s in writing before you sign anything or cash a check. That’s the moment where things can go sideways if you’re not paying attention.

A quick email like:


“Just confirming we’ve agreed on a $16,500 settlement for claim #1236. Please send the final agreement for review.”

 …goes a long way. It’s your backup if things get weird later.

#7 Be Ready To Wait

Insurance companies use time as leverage. They know people need money quickly after accidents. Medical bills pile up. Cars need repairs or replacement. 

This financial pressure pushes people to accept less than they deserve.

If you can possibly hold out, do it. Sometimes just showing the adjuster you’re not in a desperate rush can improve your offer.

Patience can literally pay off by thousands of dollars.

#8 Talk With A Personal Injury Lawyer

Sometimes bringing in a professional makes sense. 

Personal injury lawyers usually offer free consultations, so it costs you nothing to ask questions. And most work on a contingency, meaning they don’t get paid unless you win.

A lawyer makes particular sense if:

  • Your injuries are severe or permanent
  • Liability is being disputed
  • The settlement offer seems suspiciously low
  • You’re feeling overwhelmed or intimidated

Even just a consultation can arm you with valuable insights about what your claim might truly be worth. Knowledge is power when you’re negotiating with insurance adjusters.

Bottom Line

Negotiating with an insurance adjuster isn’t something most people are taught. But it’s not rocket science either. Be prepared. Stay calm. Know your worth. You’ve got more power than you think.

Don’t rush to accept the first thing they toss your way. Push back respectfully, use facts, and make your case clear. And if things get sticky, don’t hesitate to get help.

You’ve got this. Just take it step by step, and don’t settle for less than what’s fair.

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